In the last few years of my life, I have realised that I have a strange dislike for 'touch'. It's not a mechanical touch - push, play or tap that you do on your mobile phones. But it is a human touch. Whenever someone comes close to me, I try to evade a possible situation that may get 'touchy'.
I have also grown a distaste for French kisses. Whenever I see a British lady who is exceedingly beautiful and a close friend of mine, the first thought that crosses my mind is to hug and kiss gently on the cheeks. A French kiss is a more blown out version of an intimate kiss where one exchanges saliva with the twist and turn of two tongues. Therefore it seals a certain form of permanency, that she is totally yours in blood and flesh. However, when you first make friends with someone you must remember not to kiss deeply. That's the very beginning of being a gentleman - the first lesson learned is to renew each kiss with a step towards the wedding altar. A series of long kisses or a deep french kiss should be the last resort reserved for your wedding day to signify love between two souls. One must remember to let her lady free, to explore anybody that comes her way and if destinies meet one day, you know she is back in your arms 'cause she found no one as romantic. It is not so much in the romance that we dwell, it is a bigger question - of finding the right person during tough times. You could be ailing, starving, deprived, etc. but how you overcome such challenges and meet someone that gets you out of such situations indeed is a miracle. Just like right choices work as miracles!
Like Napolean was coined the 'Great' Bonaparte in books, and Admiral Nelson admired in history books as 1-1-1, who fought with one arm, one leg and one eye, to find admiration in the hearts of Britain's Patriots, here's a small article drawing the lines between the art of kissing and touching, when expressed in the form of geographical and cultural boundaries:
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